We all know we live in a complex society and accelerated, which makes it hard to stop and find time to truly connect with our feelings and our needs.
Thus we lose touch with our most sensitive and away from our true essence and the natural functioning of life. Forgetting many times the magic of existence, the ability to surprise at the wonder of life and engender a responsibility that entails. No promotes physical and emotional preparation for when receiving a child, may be aware of our needs and concerns and brewing a space that allows us to identify our own internal resources, so that in this way, we can better cope with this experience so especially a child.
The stage of pregnancy and the postpartum period will be colored by how we have lived through these stages as primary and as we have developed to date, as have been our parents, our first links with them, their presences and absences, etc. We need to do, be honest with ourselves and see what our availability for this task is so demanding that maternity especially in the early stages, which is our personal situation, economic and emotional.
It is important to be aware that the baby is an extremely dependent and requires a close and almost constant contact with his mother, especially in the first months of life is affected when the separation is sharp and produces a prolonged absence. Here of course a number of elements to discriminate. As we will depend on each particular situation and working hours, also on the ability of the mother delivered the baby full contact with her after work, because no matter only time that we dedicate the baby in the form quantitatively but qualitatively.
The labor issue is something that anxiety quite as women maternity leave is over, as both suffer separation and often do not see the baby who will care course should fulfill this function of the most loving way possible. Integrate both aspects and costs involved in moving from a state deeply emotional and intuitive, intimate sound to another, namely that is the implication of work in general before we really feel ready to return to our activities which generate conflict. Returning to work is usually seen as a social imposition when in fact the desire of the mother would stay with your baby. We also know that the return to work generally involves some stress that sometimes results in the emotional state of the mother and often affect breastfeeding.